Category: GAY


Gay men get significantly less time off than lesbians and straight couples when they become new parents, according to a study released this month that looks at parental leave policies around the world. Gay men get significantly less time off than lesbians and straight couples when they become new parents, according to a study released […]

Do you live alone?

Whenever I meet up with people, be it via Grinder, Scruff and alike, or meetups or online I get nervous when people ask me this… Do You Live Alone? In the day, I would just go on dates at a nice restaurant or go to a club or a movie. Times have changed. I hate […]

7 types of men you meet at brunch parties

Brunch parties are fun experiences. A brunch party is a day party during which brunch is served. The most enjoyable ones I have been to are in NYC and in DC. Walking into a brunch party is like walking into a sitcom. You’ll come across different characters with all types of personalities. The best part […]


Smooshed pennies: That’s what Allison and I call those little souvenir pennies that you crank through machines, at museums, amusement parks and tourist attractions alike. What is the significance of a smooshed penny? Well, a few years back I was at Epcot in Walt Disney World, and Allison was back home in New York. I […]

3 Gay Wedding Hot-Spots

Great gay-friendly destinations for your special day San Francisco, Boston and Brighton all have solid traditions of being progressive and open-minded so there is no surprise that they have long been popular gay travel destinations. Now that gays are allowed to marry in all three cities, gay lovers are rewarding their dedication to marriage equality […]

Gus Kenworthy gets candid about his years in the closet

For reasons that escape us, out actor/Olympian Gus Kenworthy has been on the receiving end of criticism after it was announced his role in the new American Horry Story anthology would be…wait for it…straight. We hope you didn’t faint. The upcoming series, titled American Horry Story: 1984, looks properly creepy. But one thing we don’t […]

How To Find Gay Love in Smalltown USA

If you are serious about wanting to find gay love, you have to go out and let other gay people know that you exist Dear Max, I am a gay white male living in a small town in southeastern Kentucky. I am not a bad looking guy and I seem to have all the right […]

When Sex Gets Boring

“I’VE GOT TO BEAT THE CLOCK BEFORE WE EACH LOSE INTEREST.” Someone recently made that statement to me about his erotic life with his partner. His experience has been that erotic interest between two people die s pretty quickly, so you better get in as much sex as possible during the early years of the […]

How to Find an Honest Gay Man

There is an honest gay man out there somewhere – longing to find someone just like you Dear Max, I am a 43 year old man and I’m feeling very lonely. All I want is to find an honest and decent man that I can trust. Do you think that I’m setting the standard too […]

The 10-Point Gay Wedding Checklist

Regardless of who you love, getting married can be stressful. For same-sex couples there’s even more complexity and that’s why we made this gay wedding checklist. Once the euphoria of the engagement wears off, the reality of wedding minutiae sets in. From fittings to cake designs to venue selection, your pending nuptials require a lot more than love; […]